Not many of us are get chances to fulfill their most urging
desires. These desires only keep us live
every day. When I was a kid, very early,
I realized desires are the root cause of every problem but when I started
living, the story was different.If you wish to love, you should have something to fulfill.
And believe me there are people who spend their lifetime figuring out that particular
something. So finally I am at peace with my inner conflicts and adopted the
resolution, “It’s good to have some desires”.
What not to have are expectations, real pain starts then. When
you have attachment to results the pain starts getting worse. I am not vandalizing
thoughts too much, but that’s the crux of desires and their fulfillment.
Expectation is a misery if one can be selfless, that is what we should aim for.
Without any plight of consequences as a result afterwards,
if we can free this from the task, is really true strength. Here comes the
courage part. Have courage to face the challenges despite of adversity or
mocking results. Remember without failing at something, you can’t achieve anything.
So fail today to succeed, hey but folks it’s not obviously! J.
Let’s take the probability what can make you forward:
1 Diary – A wonderful
tool where you can go back every day and find your true self. Meet him every
day and share your experiences.
2 Benchmarks – Have someone whom you look up. So that, world
is not a loner place to be in.
3 Self Discovery Quest – I know myself better every day but
at times you repeat some bloopers. So hang me on wall & rebuke your old
mistakes. Say hi to new ones!
4 Check Daily: SCOSH (Strength, Confidence, Optimism, Skill,
Happiness).
