To be strong think strong!

Strength is life & weakness is death. A very well summed up thought by vivekanand. World stays in your mind and lives sub consciously. Whatever you feed will grow and the one you leave will stay behind.

Say nicer things about yourself always. Only you know much better and create a positive space around yoy. Don't be a prey to public eye as it can dissipate your dreams. Know when to relax & acquire skills. Set a goal which is going to take a lifetime.

Lets end this with beautiful quotes:
1 Failures make or breaks you.
2 People will always say something.
3 Fear kills dreams & passion.
4 Tough times breaks or made you.
5 Remember you'll expire one day so be good to others.
6 Don't judge, expect, attach or depend.
7 Believe in god & believe in yourself as he is in everyone of us.
8 Last only you know your exit plan so do good and stay covered. In life play roles that inspires rather people who can't be idols.

I'm connecting dots and dreaming about a place where my solitude rests in peace. The more real you get the more problems you'll have. So speak less and listen more.

Fear is your best friend!

Batman may have gone but the epic movie has a valued lession to be cherished. Remember the well scene where Bale tries to get out but could't as he was not afraid. When he embraced fear & watched his moves carefully he got out.

The day or path that you' ve choosen ensure there are daily troubles or challenges that makes you or breaks you. Then only you can trust your path as right one. So upswing the bars and upswing the waves as you're born this way!

Another day of self realization and truth. Magic begins when you move out!

Sadhna; I love you !

Love your craft as you love your god. Every minute, seconds, hour stay in touch with it. But to my age figuring out is a big task & takes half of a lifetime atleast.

Want to go fishing , riding bikes on loner hills, finding people who share the same interests and getting a job which affords all this. Not that tough but a solution to this would be quest to your craft. Lets do this in 5  easy steps:

1 Set a reminder of big picture.
2 do something for it everyday.
3 visualize, start and ensure min.
4 make this a routine
5 relax, repeat, renew and grow .

Hope this posts help you in your pursuit. Great good 9t.

10 Dirty Secrets for Success

1   Selfishness- One life will never be enough to live your dream even for Sachin Tendulkar (Retired to give youngsters a chance). So Sorry you can’t spend living someone else’s dream.

2.       Arrogance- yes confidence comes with combo of arrogance and people who love living life of mediocrity will never understand this. So just give a damn!

3.       Loner- Most of the time we spend with ourselves knowing more about us only. We’d like to be the centre of attention for ourselves in order to bring the best craft forward.

4.       Over Confident- you can say so because when no one listens to us still we do what we like.

5.       Risk prone- That’s a habit only few can cultivate. We can risk our present for a better future

6.       Never satisfied- It’s sad but yes, there is always something left that keeps us on our toes.

7.       Few friends- That’s a stark reality but you can’t float with so much baggage. So carry a few whom you can learn and lean upon. School friends are best and must to have in a lifetime because they you know when no one understood you. So love them.

8.       Diplomatic- There is nothing wrong or right, everyone owes to have their interests count. So be at peace if someone asks your opinion.

9.       Believe on Instincts- When no one trusts you, count your vote in. Our instincts build over a time and it is like a best friend whom we can trust and most of the time works right.

10.   Last and a must or else everything above are total waste. If you can’t bring benefit to people or society at large, better not to live this kind of life. Serve someone, have an idea that feeds people interests, brings growth, development not just consumption. Then you can say you have made something out of your life.

Always remember you got this life because you deserved it. So always keep your head high and learn to be of use to others. PERIOD

Diwali – The festival of lights

Hey all, after many days back to my writing stuff. Writing over Diwali is not that big but it’s close to everyone’s heart. Hope you had your best on Diwali as mine was pretty good. OK, I am skipping the intro and reason of celebrating this amazing festival as I have a really interesting reason to skip it instead. So here we go. Check the images and keep guessing?

I met a very interesting person on this day, who have a very good way to celebrate this festival and very apt way to say the festival of lights for him. He is a Rickshaw puller by profession and enjoys this festival to maxim. Away from his family, not on the first occasion, he celebrates by decorating his complete rickshaw with candles covered everywhere on it just like a newlywed bride. With utter glee he decorates it and enchants sweet memories with his family, that’s his way of celebrating Diwali. I was really moved by the spirit he beholds for this festival and what special he does on this day.

Till that day Diwali was just a metaphor for me to remove all badness and inculcate goodness but now I can say proudly that I have witnessed it as well. Some really special memories are with me for this day as my Grandfather celebrated his last and my only Diwali with him. I want to convey my special thanks to him for who I am today.

On much philosophical note if I convey my message it would be simply celebration of event called life. I always wonder what would be the idea behind having too many festivals which I got it recently. We are too busy in our lives that we stop celebrating life as it is. Instead of illuminating we surround ourselves with dimness of unfilled desires. So don’t stop celebrating as it is very rightly said by a very beautiful quote rephrased by a guy like me in a different way:

“Yesterday is a canceled check; tomorrow is a promissory note; today is the only cash you have - so spend it wisely”

Kay Lyons

CAST OUT NIMIETY OF THOUGHTS!

                                                                         

What will you do, when you are enriched with information, you need to dribble a bit so that only pertinent information ooze in.As they say surplus info baffles and makes it hard to conclude. Choice is as always yours whether you stick to the bait or follow your own principle.Focus has its own charm and when followed single minded always give results.Take time to relax and garner thoughts that rejuvenate your thinking and endeavors.

It all starts in your head and should end there. So if you wish to make it enormous or timid, again your stand. Think on it. Great battles are fought with courage but won with strength of mind. PERIOD.

Writing Discovery; DESIRES

Not many of us are get chances to fulfill their most urging desires.  These desires only keep us live every day.  When I was a kid, very early, I realized desires are the root cause of every problem but when I started living, the story was different.If you wish to love, you should have something to fulfill. And believe me there are people who spend their lifetime figuring out that particular something. So finally I am at peace with my inner conflicts and adopted the resolution, “It’s good to have some desires”.

What not to have are expectations, real pain starts then. When you have attachment to results the pain starts getting worse. I am not vandalizing thoughts too much, but that’s the crux of desires and their fulfillment. Expectation is a misery if one can be selfless, that is what we should aim for.

Without any plight of consequences as a result afterwards, if we can free this from the task, is really true strength. Here comes the courage part. Have courage to face the challenges despite of adversity or mocking results. Remember without failing at something, you can’t achieve anything. So fail today to succeed, hey but folks it’s not obviously! J.

Let’s take the probability what can make you forward:

 1 Diary – A wonderful tool where you can go back every day and find your true self. Meet him every day and share your experiences.

2 Benchmarks – Have someone whom you look up. So that, world is not a loner place to be in.

3 Self Discovery Quest – I know myself better every day but at times you repeat some bloopers. So hang me on wall & rebuke your old mistakes. Say hi to new ones!

4 Check Daily: SCOSH (Strength, Confidence, Optimism, Skill, Happiness).